Do you like to camp in a quite place with not toys and just relax or do you like to camp where all the action is?
What I don't like is speakers blazing at midnight. Drives me nuts. I always try to find a section though that has no one else near it.I don't mind some some noise, but in the evening I like to enjoy a nice quiet campfire with some Morgan and diet root beer (regular root beer and Morgan is too sweet). Sitting around a fire (campfire not a motorhome fire) telling lies and jokes is very relaxing.
At Ocotillo Wells when the sun cracks the horizon there are dirt bikes waking everybody up. Courtesy would dictate 8am.
When we stayed with that Jeep club in Truckhaven over New Year's weekend they played loud music until one or two in the morning. Not cool.
During the day make as much noise as you want, because I will.